"Be yourself and know that's good enough "
I'm no longer that young girl I used to be. I have matured. I have grown. I am a woman now. A phenomenal one. One who stands up for what she believes in !
Be your own person, like wake up every single day to impress yourself. Do you for you and inspire others who admire your character because if your life revolves around what people say or think about you, you will remain their prisoner. There are days in life where you feel like everything is falling apart , where being strong takes all the energy and skills you have and leave you so hopeless, worn out and frustrated that you end up thinking that it is the end of the world . When all the people who claimed to there for you are nowhere to be found. When your only hope seems not to care. Just kneel down and PRAY to release all the pain and bitterness in your heart after all you are a human being. You are allowed to express your feelings in any way, You're allowed to be broken and let God help you pick up the pieces.
I know this may sound as a cliche but it is the truth. People will always have something to say about you whether you do good or bad they will ALWAYS look for something negative to talk about. I remember back in the days while I was still in primary school, so skinny and all ,that almost all my pants had to be cut to fit me properly. So there was this guy who used to call me "mamtshetshe" and had no idea what that did to me. Even though I was getting A's in class, he never really cared about my good grades. This is a clear indication of what people always pay attention to(negative over positive). They are so good at labeling other individuals with small butts, big foreheads, big boobies etc and totally have no idea what that does them. Humans will leave you weak and have you questioning your existence hey...that's just how it is. The best thing you can ever do is to stay in your lane since there is no traffic .
